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Me: "Don't pick me brain. Sounds painful, lol. My professional advice and anecdotes are worth way more than a beer or a coffee!"
Also me: "I'm available on these dates and times to chat with you, random stranger. I will also do a bit too much labor in coordinating this when it should really be you doing all the work if you want to talk to me about an industry or company you're trying to break into."